Tuesday, April 24, 2012

April 22, 2012


Dear Family,
We are enjoying a beautiful weekend here.  The sun has popped out a couple of times this spring, giving us HOPE for better weather to come.  Truly, I hear about Aubrey and Adrianne planting their gardens, even having some blossoms on their plantings, and the thought has NEVER crossed my mind.  Well, I can’t say never, because I have glanced at our garden area longingly.  Dad says that we have three artichoke buds starting.  Growing an artichoke was Adriane’s idea last year and I just tried it.  Since nothing happened with that plant I thought I had done it wrong but maybe, it takes a year before you get the fruit.  We will see!  Working in the garden is very therapeutic.  I think it is because creating is such an important part of our being.
Some quick news items about Adrianne and Blake:  Blake broke his hand playing basketball at the church with friends.  He has received second opinions on what to do to make it heal correctly and is scheduled for surgery this Tuesday.  Because of the bones that were injured, he needs to have pins put in for six weeks and then they are removed; ouch!  He could use some cheerful calls or notes.  He is doing his programming work one handed.
On happier news for the Severson family: Their ducks are laying!  They go out in the little home they built for ducks and retrieve an egg each morning from their layers.  One of the ducks seemed concerned at first that her eggs were leaving the nest so Adrianne put a plastic Easter egg in there and the duck seemed content.  That kind of makes my Mother heart sad to think of the whole egg laying and “mother ducks wondering where their eggs are going” process; I had never really given that a second thought when eating an egg!  They had to sell two of their nosiest ducks to make a neighbor happy.  Gumbo and Taco Bill, their latest two ducks that they purchased, are due for slaughter and barbecue.  They are planning on doing that on Mother’s Day, May 13 this year.  That is nice of them to wait to do the barbeque when we are able to be there. Oddly, eating a pet duck just doesn’t have the same sadness that the whole “eggs being taken from mothers” carries!
On Mother’s Day weekend, we are in Utah for Rebekah’s baptism.  They have changed her baptismal date to Saturday, May 12 at 2:00.  If you have the May 5th date on your calendar, be sure to change that.  We will be in Utah from Saturday morning until Monday evening that weekend.  We look forward to being there for the baptism and, as you can imagine, Rebekah is of course, excited to be baptized!!!
We spent a fun-filled weekend with Shawn and Aubrey and the boys.  We went last weekend while Aubrey had a large assignment with the annual auction for Gregory’s preschool.  We played with the boys so Aubrey could get things done and helped her with some of the decorating.  We had fun with batting practice, played kickball, played UNO and a funny chicken-egg game and enjoyed a hike in the hills with everyone.  The boys were excited for the hike that ends at a pond.  They went hunting for newts and frogs.  The warm air on the hike in the hills made the surrounding eucalyptus trees fragrance more vibrant.  The smell of eucalyptus is a great childhood memory from the canyon by our Patricia Court home.
We took Flat Stanley with us so he went bike riding with Gregory.  Gregory said that Flat Stanley must be saying, “Wow, this is like a roller coaster ride!” so we put that thought bubble on the postcard with the photo of Flat Stanley using our SendOutCards account. After I loaded the photos, Gregory and Bryson wanted to see them on my computer.  Flat Stanley had gone to work with Dad last week and “helped” do some jack hammer work.  When we sent that post card to Adam’s school I wondered what 12 year olds would even recognized what a jack hammer was.  Well, on my computer screen there was a tiny thumbprint of Flat Stanley on the jack hammer and Gregory immediately saw that and asked, “Is that Flat Stanley on a jack hammer?”  My jaw must have dropped to the floor as I was amazed a five year old even knew what one looked like!


We extended our trip to stay all of Monday instead of going home in the morning s that we could see Gregory and Bryson swim.  We went to the YMCA by their place.  It has a great pool and inviting hot tub!  The most fun part of swimming to me was watching Shawn and Aubrey play in the water.  They know how to work hard and play hard.  It is a joy to see our married children laughing together amid the sometimes overwhelming responsibilities that they have.  I hated to go home.  We cut it close getting to our flight since we waited until the last minute to leave.  We were very lucky that our luggage made it.  When you are standby, there is no luggage guarantee nor luggage delivery.
That same night Morty was sitting in court side seats with Jeremy Luman at a Blazer versus Suns game in Phoenix.  He was on the TV for a bit.  Seems like Morty has that knack!  Hey, Dad and I might be on TV.  I forgot to tell you last newsletter that we got tickets to the Wheel of Fortune Portland taping.  The shows that we watched will be aired next Thursday and Friday, May 3rd and 4th.  They scanned the audience a few times.  We may show up on the Friday showing since they moved us in between shows.  It was pretty fun and we have Wheel of Fortune light up button souvenirs to prove we were there!  I hope the world doesn’t judge Oregon by one of the VERY inadequate contestants.  I don’t remember which night he was on but it will be obvious.  I mainly was interested in the ticket lottery when my chiropractor said she had been chosen to try out to be a contestant.  That would have been so much fun to see her on it.  They said she wasn’t loud enough.
I ran into Sonja Morton the other evening.  She said that she was Heidi and Scott’s teacher at Cooper Mountain School.  I told her that I wouldn’t know her from that long ago and as I looked closely at her, I realized that she was Shane Morton’s mom.  She said that he lives in the area and is working for some non-profit in Portland after his mortgage business quit doing so well!!!
Relief Society was interesting this week especially since it was a general conference talk, A Time to Prepare, by Elder Ardern who is Jessica Chandler’s father-in-law form New Zealand!  He suggested that we be as quick to kneel as we are quick to text saying, “ I know our greatest happiness comes as we tune in to the Lord (see Alma 37:37) and to those things which bring a lasting reward, rather than mindlessly tuning in to countless hours of status updates, Internet farming, and catapulting angry birds at concrete walls. I urge each of us to take those things which rob us of precious time and determine to be their master, rather than allowing them through their addictive nature to be the master of us.”  He also said that there is no substitute for real friends who can give us hugs and look after our best interest as opposed to cyber friends.
Speaking of real friends and real hugs, an article in the April Ensign, Taking Time to Talk and Listen, brought me to tears as I realized the real expression of feelings that our family neglected to develop in younger years.  Oh, how I wish I could turn back the clock on some things!  As the article spoke of personal communication and stated, “The adversary would love to bind our tongues-anything to prevent us from expressing verbally the feelings of our hearts face to face.  He delights in distance and distraction; he delights in noise; he delights in impersonal communication-anything that would prevent us from the warmth of a voice and the personal feelings that come from conversing eye to eye.”  Oh how I wish we all could communicate our feelings better!
We got to sit outside in the sunshine for part of our visit with Scott on his birthday Saturday afternoon. Plus, his old cellmate brought him over a chocolate milk and pastry from the vending machines in the visitors’ room which was very kind.  Scott said that his block had promised him a burrito birthday party afterwards.  They have figured out a way to create a slow cook oven effect by filing a lined garbage can with hottest water and submerging plastic wrapped foods in the heat.  The ingredients to the burritos sounded rather unappealing but, you know Scott, he loves trying unusual foods; but really, ramen in a burrito???
I hope that you are experiencing some warmer days and fresh smells of spring as we have the past couple of days. 
I love you, Mom





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